How To Handle A Child With Anorexia

According to the National Institutes of Health, about 0.5anorexia to stop, it is imperative to support them in
to 3.7 percent of girls and women will developtheir struggles. More and more, doctors and patients
anorexia nervosa over a lifetime, and around 1.1 to 4.2advocate family-centered therapy-letting parents back
percent will develop bulimia nervosa. Nearly 0.5 percentinto the treatment process. For decades, parents were
of anorexics die each year from the illness, making itseen as an anorexic's biggest problem and were even
one of the top psychiatric illnesses to cause death.blamed as the cause for the disorder. Research has
Those suffering from anorexia are extremely fearfulshown that while parents can influence a child's eating
of gaining extra weight and may exhibit negativedisorder, they are typically not the cause. Known as
behaviors and actions leading to severe weight loss.the Maudsley approach (after the London-based
Pounds are lost by over-exercising and restrictinghospital it was developed in), family-centered therapy
calorie intake. Anorexics view their bodies in afocuses on helping parents become a support system.
distorted way. When they look in the mirror, despiteFood is the "medicine" to treat the illness, and doctors
being dangerously thin, they see themselves as toocoach parents and their child through meals and
heavy. For concerned parents who have children withappropriate behavior in a clinical setting. After a few
anorexia, there is an array of assistance available fromtries, families are then sent home to continue the
programs at hospitals, treatment centers, and clinicstreatment. Patients benefit from the love and support
specializing in eating disorder recovery.afamily network provides.
One of the problems in overcoming anorexia is thatRegardless of the approach settled on, for any
those with the illness don't usually see it that way-thattreatment program to be successful, those with
don't think they are sick. If somebody with anorexia isanorexia need the continued support of family and
in immediate danger, they might need emergency carefriends. Following is advice for parents, courtesy of
for malnourishment, including dehydration andThe National Eating Disorders Foundation (
electrolyte imbalances.Educate yourself about eating disorders. Read as
Long-term treatment entails a team effort withmuch material as you can in magazines, books, articles,
professionals trained in eating disorders, includingand brochures.
dieticians, mental health professionals, medical doctors,Understand the differences between facts and myths
and treatment centers:about weight, nutrition, and exercise. Being armed with
- Dieticians. A dietitian will create meal plans andfacts will help you reason with your child about the
monitor calorie intake to implement a healthy diet.misconceptions they adhere to.
However, there's more to recovering from an eatingBe truthful. Don't be afraid to voice your concerns to a
disorder than changing one's eating habits.child who struggles with eating or body image issues.
- Mental Health Professionals. People who suffer fromPretending the problem doesn't exist does not help.
anorexia suffer emotionally and mentally as well. TheyBe loving, yet firm. Loving your means you hold them
need change the way they view themselves to boostaccountable for their actions and the consequences of
their self-esteem, and their mood can benefit fromthose actions. It does not mean you let them
carefully prescribed and monitored antidepressants.manipulate you. Do not make rules or promise you
Psychiatric treatment sessions typically last at least acan't or don't intend to uphold, such as "I won't tell
year and take place one-on-one, with family, or withanyone" or "If you do this anymore I won't ever speak
other people with eating disorders.with you."
- Medical Providers. While those still in the early stagesSincerely compliment your child on their terrific
(less than 6 months) typically avoid hospital stays, forpersonality, accomplishments, or contributions.
people with advanced cases, checking into a unit forReinforce the idea that beauty is not just skin deep.
anorexia or bulimia may be required. People withBe a positive example in regard to your own eating,
anorexia need constant monitoring of electrolytes,exercising, and self-acceptance.
hydration levels, and vital signs. A doctor should beKnow when to share. It can be hard to know if you
involved in the on-going medical treatment.should share your concerns with somebody else, if at
- Treatment Centers. Clinics across the countryall. By addressing issues with eating or body image
provide a live-in environment for children suffering fromearly, you stand a better chance of working through
anorexia. These centers provide a treatmentthe issues with your child. Don't wait to seek help until
team-dieticians, psychiatrists, and doctors-under oneyour child is extremely sick. They need as much
roof. Such programs entail an extended stay.support from you as possible.
While concerned parents can't force children with